“I’m Done Complaining”
by chadlandman on April 18, 2012
Last night, I was fortunate enough to see Coach Gene Stallings speak last night in Franklin, Tennessee at a medical missions fundraiser.
Some of my earliest memories are sitting in front of the TV with my dad and watching Alabama play football and seeing Coach Stalling roaming the sidelines. Last night I got to shake his hand, but his message last night was more powerful than all the Bama football I watched him coach.
Paraphrase of part of his talk last night:
“I’m done complaining. I’m done complaining, and I’ll tell you why. My good son John Mark, who had Down Syndrome, passed away many years ago. One night he was having a hard night and I went and crawled into bed with him. One of the first things I did was check his oxygen saturation. For those of you who don’t know what that is, a normal person’s oxygen saturation is 90 or above. You get below 90 and not only do you start to feel awful, but you run the risk of death.
When I checked his that night, it was 63.
I asked him how he felt. If mine or your saturation fell below 90, we’d be rantin’ and ravin’ and complainin’ all over the place. But when I asked John Mark, all he said was, ‘I fine. I fine.’
He passed away the next morning.
I knew how awful he felt, even when he was literally dying. So I’m done complaining.”
When we think about what we complain about every day, we need to be reminded of those people who have real problems. Those people who are really suffering, the ones in Haiti and in tons of other parts of the world who don’t have a place to live, food to eat, and clean drinking water.
We are blessed beyond anything we can imagine, and we complain when we’re irritated, made to wait on something, or inconvenienced in any way.
I am struggling with this personally right now. My negativity seems to always get in my own way. The devil uses negativity and complaining to sour our goals and dash our dreams. We need to rejoice in all things, just like Paul said to do, whether that’s in pain or in joy.
Soldier’s Circle Notes :: April 17, 2012
by chadlandman on April 17, 2012
Here’s some links to the different things we discussed at our Soldier’s Circle meeting today, with links attached. Also, the recording of Glenn Hardison talking to us about youth minister’s and taxes is at the bottom. Enjoy!
• #Hashtag Youth Series – Free online web series for Summer 2012
• Healing Hands Walk for Water at Nashville Shores, this Saturday (April 21) at 9AM
• Public Servant Federal Loan Forgiveness Program
• Direct download audio here (right click > Save As)
5 Tips for High School Juniors
by chadlandman on March 23, 2012
Candice Franfle, owner of Frankel College Counseling, offers these tips for High School Juniors:
- Sign up the most challenging courses you can handle. Colleges want to see a rigorous senior year curriculum.
- Begin researching your college list – Do you see yourself at a large or small school? Urban or rural? Artsy or rah rah?
- Now’s not the time to try tons of new activities. Instead go for a leadership position in one.
- What you do this summer counts! Ask your coaches, teachers and counselor for ideas related to your passions. And don’t forget test prep!
- Get organized – to de-stress the process, store all your report cards, transcripts, awards and test scores in The Edwin, a cool, new organizational system for high schoolers that Includes tips from a top college counselor…and when you fill out your applications, you’ll have everything in one place.
You can find the entire article here.
The Bible Is Not
by chadlandman on March 7, 2012
The Bible is not a cute little book of quotes.
Tell me, which of the following quotes came from the Bible?
- “Spare the rod, spoil the child.”
- “All things shall pass, this too, shall pass.”
- “God helps those who help themselves.”
- “Cleanliness is next to Godliness”
- “God works in mysterious ways.”
None of them.
Does that surprise you? Not one of these actual phrases are in the Bible, no matter which version you look at. There are similar passages, but if you read the actual scripture, it says something entirely different. See: Proverbs 13.24.
This kind of thinking can be dangerous. Tell me, who was it that tempted Adam & Eve in the Garden of Eden? Hint: it wasn’t Satan. The Bible never mentions Satan, just ‘the serpent.’ Or what about the three wise men who visited baby Jesus? Were there three of them? No. The Bible never puts a number on it. Look for yourself.
What we do is what we do with everything else – we infect the Bible, the Word of God, with our own values and morals without asking what the Bible’s morals and values actually are.
We’ve all played the game Telephone. You know, the game where someone starts a message and whispers it to the next person down the line and then so on and so on…only to get to the last person and realize that the original message is nothing like what was started with.
Take the iPad event today (March 7, 2012). I’m a geek and I follow all that nonsense, and there were so many people convinced that this is what the new iPad was going to have. None of us actually knew what it was going to have until we heard it from the source.
Most times, we need to go to the source. The source is where the original, true message was and is. The word of God, the Bible, is that true and original message.
So next time you see these old proverb-ish quotes that everyone says are from the Bible, get off your butt and check them out for yourself. The Bible says a lot about a lot of different things, and you, as a Christian, are going to be held responsible for what it says.
The Bible is Not Just A History Book.
Of the 66 books in the Bible, only 13 are books about history and historical accounts. That’s only 19.7% of the entire Bible. The other 80% are Gospels, letters to churches, and books of prophecy.
Imagine that I told you that UT only played football. Or that Star Wars was just about Obi-Wan Kenobi. Or that The Hunger Games book series was just about being hungry.
UT doesn’t just play football, they play a lot of sports. Obi-Wan Kenobi was very important in the Star Wars story, but he isn’t the focus. And The Hunger Games wasn’t just about being hungry, it was about a fight-to-the-death competition in a post-apocalyptic world.
When we generalize the Bible to “just a history book”, we do lots of dangerous things. First, we make it seem as though the Bible isn’t important for our daily lives, and it is. Second, we mislead those who really don’t know the Bible to believe that’s true.
The world believes the Bible to be a collection of history and good stories. We believe it to be more than that. Or we should.
The Bible is Not A Book of Suggestions.
If I was to say to you, “So-and-So, you better start looking at colleges. Going to college is important.” Do you have to do that?
No. You can do anything you want to, but most people realize that getting an education can lead to a better way of life and a happier person. While plenty of people have went to college and it’s an extremely good suggestion to go to college, you don’t have to go. There’s no law against it.
But if you understand laws, they are there not just to tell us what to do, but to protect us. Is the reason why there’s a speed limit on the highway just to mess with you and make you obey what ‘the man’ tells you to do. No. It’s to protect you and others when you’re driving a 3,000-pound weapon down the street at 70 miles per hour.
Just like laws in our everyday lives, the Bible is a set of laws, not suggestions, that we must abide by to have eternal life with God in Heaven.
A lot of us look at laws and rules as things to be broken, or as mere suggestions. We look at the Bible like those in Glee and make up what we think the Bible ought to say, which brings me to my final point…
The Bible is Not What We Say It Is.
It’s what God says. It’s what Jesus says. That’s it.
We can make up all the excuses in the world and try to make the Bible fit our own morals and life as much as we want, but we are not going to change the Bible. We are not going to change God.
If you or one of your friends are trying to justify something wrong that you’re doing and twist the Bible to fit it, you are flat wrong.
Revelation 22.18-19 says not to add or take away from this book. Proverbs 30.5-6 says do not add to what God says because His words are pure. 2 Corinthians 11.4 says not to even put up with things that are false. I could go on and on.
Conclusion
The basic premise for everything we’ve talked about is that you have to get off your butt or your cell phone or your Xbox and look this stuff up for yourself. The media, the TV shows, the internet, and your friends all have ideas about what the Bible is. You need to be educated to tell them what the Bible is not, as well as what it is.
I don’t know how to say this in a nicer way, but here goes:
Stop believing all the stupid crap that everyone throws at you and have the intelligence and accountability to look this stuff up for yourself. You can’t trust what hardly anybody says anymore, especially if they’re on TV or from Washington. If you don’t think a test is coming for your Christianity one day, then think again. You stand before God.
Seperate Branding Starting Now
by chadlandman on March 7, 2012
Starting today, we will have sepeate pages for my different ‘brands’. This site will become my personal blog dedicated to youth ministry and what not. Youth Ministry Bits will not change and it will continue to be the tech tidbits for ministers. However, I’m announcing a new blog centered on technology reporting today – Brex.
Brex is all about simple tech reporting. So many sites with so many feeds, pictures, advertising, and junk just isn’t needed. We want to clear the clutter and offer 5-6 quality posts a week, not 5-6 every 10 minutes.
So please, head over to Brex if you’re looking for the same reporting you saw here.
Cheers!
Excited about… Windows?
by chadlandman on February 29, 2012
Yes I am. And I’ll tell you why.
With the Consumer Preview (3.3GB download) being released today, I fully intend to find/build a PC and load this on it.
People love to say I’m an Apple Fanboy, and I am. But I’m not necessarily an Apple fan so much as I am a fan of what’s best. And right now, that’s Apple products and software.
Granted, Windows 8 is late to the party, and Windows Phone was super late to the party, but I love both interfaces, both on the phone and the PC/tablet. If they released a Windows 8 tablet today, I would buy one. You know, if I had a couple hundred dollars.
But why? Unlike Google and Android, Microsoft has finally managed to do something original. They didn’t copy iOS, they made a completely different interface that’s also fluid and functional. Don’t get me wrong, I love Google and I love Android, but it’s not original. It was, and still is at its best, a copy of iOS. Yes, there have been a few innovations with notifications and widgets, but the Windows 8 Metro-style interface is something that even the biggest Apple elitists have to admit is nice. The tiles on screen update in a subtle way as to not annoy you but also so you can’t ignore it.
I’m most excited about one thing though: competition. I may sound crazy for saying this, but I don’t think Android has as much staying power as people think. I hear all the time about people wanting to ditch their Droids and get iPhones because they’re just easier. Google won’t go down without a fight, but with iOS overtaking Android once again and Win Phone 7 on the rise, the competition is stiffer than ever. And that’s good for consumers. Someone needs to challenge Apple, and while I believe without a doubt that’s Google right now, I don’t think that will be the case in 5 years.
What do you think? Are you excited about Windows 8, either on PCs or tablets? Tell me in the comments.
5th Greatest Day Ever
by chadlandman on February 28, 2012
Pretty sure today broke into my top 5 for best days I’ve ever had. My five best days ever:
- Becoming a Christian / June 9, 1996
- Marrying Bonnie Ousely / August 9, 2008
- My son being born / October 19, 2011
- Graduating Marine Corps Basic Training / September 15, 2000
- Today / February 28, 2012
Allow me to explain why today was so great. I got to see my favorite podcast, MacBreak Weekly, being filmed live, got to meet Leo Laporte, Alex Lindsay, Jason Snell, Eileen Rivera, Tom Merrit and others, and on top of everything got to visit Apple HQ at 1 Infinite Loop on the way back to my wife’s grandmother’s house.
What a great day.
3 Great HTML Resources
by chadlandman on February 28, 2012
While I sit and wait to see MacBreak Weekly here in Petaluma, CA, I was able to find 3 phenomenal resources for HTML & CSS.
The first is HTML Kickstart from 99Lime, and just having looked at this for 10 minutes, I know I will be using this fabulous resource soon. Go to their site and download the whole package of Javascript, HTML, and CSS files and pick and choose what you need. Awesome and Free.
The second is Pea.rs, a site for some of the most used codes we see on the web everyday. You can choose from forms, footers, slats, tags, and links and format them any which way you choose. The actual HTML is displayed above with the HTML code and CSS below. Very nicely designed site as well. Free.
The third is an actual book (not an eBook, but an actual paper book) effectively entitled HTML & CSS. But this isn’t a book that reads like a VCR manual from the 80′s, it’s an absolutely gorgeous representation of the basics of HTML & CSS. If you’re wanting to learn HTML, this is where to start. Download a sample chapter and find out more about the book here. $20.
Simple Brands: Agree or Disagree?
by chadlandman on February 24, 2012
Siegel + Gale has its list of simplest brands for 2011, just released today. I disagree with number 1, and I’m sure you might side with me. There are arguments here both for and against, but we all think of the same brand when we think of simple.
YouTube Gets the Snub
by chadlandman on February 21, 2012
From Pocket-Lint.com [Article]:
Most interesting of the three is the inclusion of Vimeo over YouTube, a choice that is bound to give the professional video-sharing site a boost in awareness and audience numbers, but also leave users wondering why no Google support from day one?
When asked why there was no YouTube support at the moment in the developerpreview, Apple told Pocket-lint: “We have Vimeo, and we don’t have YouTube.”
Straight to the point then? Could such a move open an even greater rift between Apple and Google or is it merely the case that Apple prefers the more “quality focused” video sharing service?
It’s not about quality, at least in this case. It’s about getting even.